Sex Syncronicity

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Hey you harmonized sexy followers!  Let's get into sync sexually and become those excited erotic beings that your know you are!  Picture this; you're in bed with your partner and everything SEEMS great to you, as a man.  But suddenly, you're seeing fireworks and she's fizzled out.  So what happened?  Simply put, you may have assumed, that when it comes to being turned on, women and men are ready at the same time.

Look, nothing could be further from the truth.  In fact, in the heat of the moment, many guys make a sexually FATAL mistake; they assume that their partner is as excited as they are, so as men usually do, they speed things up when they should be slowing down or doing more to get into sync!  You guys can't just assume that a woman's level of natural lubrication corresponds exactly to the level of excitement that she is experiencing, can you?  NO!  You can't.   Lubrication is a big part of the arousal process, BUT, it Is by no means an indicator that she's been amply stimulated.  She may be as wet as Niagra Falls, but not necessarily aroused.  So don't just go for the jugular.  Stop that!  Conversely, a woman may be highly aroused, yet not necessarily well lubricated.  Men often take this as an insult, thinking that they're doing something wrong; which at times they have, but listen; don't just go stickin your finger or manhood in there!

Confused?  Listen up!  This is how you can make sure your partner is really raring to go, so you can once again enter the home of bliss that you long to be cozy with!   Generally, if a man focuses on foreplay ONLY; and keeps the stimulation going, the lubrication will flow.  If not, a little extra assistance can help.   Most women prefer having a natural lube (like your saliva) until their own wetness kicks in, while others find that they can only get properly lubricated if they feel themselves already wet.  Natural substances, are the way to go here!

Beyond a woman's level of lubrication, guys should pay more attention to the visible signs of arousal.  And just what are those signs?  Throughout the ages, WISE MEN; which I know you all are, have reflected upon this question and, in the Eastern practices for love and sex; there is an indication for female arousal, which I am going to lay out for you.  Her hands are hot and her abdomen is warm, and at the same time her language becomes almost unintelligible.  It's like, the la la of dialogue coming out of her mouth.  Kinda like talking in tongues!  Her expression looks as though she is bewitched, BUT NOT A WITCH.  Her body is soft as jelly and her limbs are droopy.  The saliva under her tongue has been sucked dry.  There is an increase in the pace of her breathing.  Touch, not fondle or grope her body; is there an increase in her temperature and heart rate?  Can you feel a high state of tension in her muscles?  What about the abdominal muscles?  Are they tightening?  Connect your face cheeks to her pelvis; is it throbbing and is there a general bearing down movement in the pelvic area?

Bottom line here, stop assuming that women are just like men, and start using your senses with synchronicity to determine when a woman is really excited. I'm tellin ya; your partner will not only thank you; she will LOVE YOU!  Wanting to brush up your touch skills again?  You know where to find me.

That's it again for this segment.  Stay tuned; I'll be back.
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