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Hey sexy ones! How are you? What have you been told about orgasms so far in your sexy lives? Have as many as you can? Are you being told to make sure when you do, that it's a oozy, woozy, doozy one? Scientists and doctors will tell you that an orgasm is only a matter of blood and nerve endings. Give me a break! This physical explanation is not even the tip of the friggin iceberg. Your wonderful orgasms take place in a realm that remains largely invisible to most of you and those so called scholarly academic people.
What we need to teach our children, is the sacred purpose of orgasms. This knowledge has been kept from us by the cruel consciousness that has controlled this plane, which of course is the third dimensional planet earth, for the past 6,000 years or even more! This oppressive energy weaseled it's way into thinking it was much easier to control our species if they brainwashed us with sexual guilt and suppressed our natural sexuality. How sadistic is that I ask you? The orgasmic power that flows through our body is the same power that allows the rest of us (yes, you are not alone!) to access the countless of nested layers of multidimensional realities that exist and have always existed all around us. So, when we experience that sweet, pleasurable sensation, that only last a short while, we call orgasm; something is occurring in the invisible realm which is HUGELY powerful; especially for women!
It's like this you sexy people; if you were able to see the waves of energy that pour out from our bodies at the moment of orgasm, you would be able to see exactly what was in the mindset while the orgasm occurred. You have to be very careful about what you think when your orgasm happens. There are waves upon waves of energy generated by your chakras (remember, those are the energy centres), your endocrine system, and your physical reactions. Those waves of energy have a mutual connection, precisely to your thoughts; meaning your consciousness. So when you release these frequencies, an entire package flows out into the invisible realms in the universe.
Those of you who are unwise and tuning into dark thoughts, such as pain and bondage, during your sexual experiences will find yourselves plugged into a lower plane of consciousness with some very draining companions. All those wonderfully hideous images painted in the middle ages will give you a good idea of the company you can expect to keep thereafter. I'm serious here! If you are drunk or on drugs, you will attract a soul from those realms. If you are angry or having some dark fantasy, then you will magnetize a soul from those realms as well. Consciousness is everything, even in the act of love making; which is the bottom line followers!
Even if you are not creating a child, you are still sending out masses of energy onto the earth's plane and into the Invisible realms. This energy greatly effects every single damn thing, including the fertility of your fields, the quality of your lives, and what you call NATURE. The energies of orgasm can lift the entire planet, that is, if it's properly done.
If men want to enjoy the full and subtle expressions of sacred orgasms, they MUST patiently, sweetly, lovingly, and deliberately lift the frequencies of their lover. The fact is. that when a woman generates massive deep sacred orgasmic wave fields, then so will her partner. Their union will prolong his orgasm with hers. You don’t know what you're missing if you're not experiencing this NOW, at this particular time in the world. Not only that, but in fact the cosmic orgasm is your divine right. Your beautiful bodies were designed for this in order to attract evolving souls into your plane, third dimensional planet earth. We have been imprisoned with guilt and shame; ashamed of your bodies which are works of art.
So back to what I said about women. With women, the power of the female orgasm is detrimental to deliver into the cosmos. Why? Of course I'm going to tell you why. Think about the event behind women giving birth; it's quite an event, no? We extract poundage's out of that beautiful cave of ours. And for this fact; that is usually done with pain that we soon forget. Look, most women have no idea; when it comes to the capacity of strength they carry behind their orgasms. The time has now come to an end; where the tyrant of history dictates our pleasure. When we deliver orgasms they should be just as powerful as giving birth; coming from a place parceled with LOVE & PLEASURE. Two crucial ingredients for healing the earth and the world!
Very well, I'm sending my light and love to all of you this week!
oxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
Friday, September 25, 2015
Tuesday, September 22, 2015
The Masculine Heart
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My sexy heartfelt people out there! How strong is your heart anyway? Excuse me; you say it needs fixing, mending, a complete overhaul from all the bombardments of the past? Listen here; any time a woman feels she needs to fix her man's heart, things are eventually going to end badly. Same is true if a man needs to fix his woman's heart, or any other combination of genders one wants to use. If one partner is truly in need of some personal fixing, and she or he is not going into heart repair without prompting, no amount of wanting her or him to change is going to matter. Eventually it will become an issue of disagreement. People have to want to change their heart, right? Absolutely!
Most women have visions of the ideal man; a masculine, affectionate, intelligent man who will sweep you off your feet; being not only a knight in shining armour, but sensitive and romantic. This of course is all great and sounds pretty mouth watering in fact. But listen ladies; WAKE THE F...... UP! These flash fire attractions turn into a relationship, and your knight in shining armour can sometimes, well, seem like a real wimp! I'm sure this might sound a bit sexist, but I think this is going to be pretty good advice. Men need to be able to feel like men, which doesn't mean they can't be sensitive and in touch with their emotions. But the old ideas of the medieval man, which doesn't seem very politically correct, are still highly useful.
Almost nothing in our general culture supports a new, evolved masculinity, and we’re still obsessed with surface rather than depth. The macho is sadly one dimensional. Yet, if guys are too soft, they're wimps. If they openly appreciate beauty, they must be gay. Other than the Christian and mainstream religion camps, if they're spiritual, they're lumped with the new agers; whether they belong there or not; again men are viewed as somewhat soft. And though it's unspoken, soft is pretty much equal to weak, which rubs against the deeply ingrained cultural programming from both men and women about how men should be.
It’s not just that women generally want men to be more tender hearted, compassionate and feeling; in a word, CONNECTED. Some deep part of you men out there, indeed knows that you need to be that way too. Despite outward displays of male bonding and mutual trust on a deeper level, most guys are pretty alone. Much as you hate to admit it guys, you're fairly alienated. Perhaps you're lonely as well.
Look, the worlds current notion of masculinity is based primarily on personality attributes that portray a more outward and probing, determined to be someone strong; just like you want your almighty male genitals to be. The masculine is inclined toward qualities that display assertiveness and forward direction; seeking linear locomotion if you will and a sense of progress; competitive and or territorial. You men want to frame challenges and opportunities outside of your masculine heart. But by your very nature, the so called feminine trait, which is in your heart, IS more attuned to relationships of an organic process, harmony and love! For men, as you cultivate more of these relational qualities, you'll then enhance our ability for deepness, feeling, cooperation and intimacy and complete wholeness in your masculine heart.
Al-righty then; until the next beat; have a fantastic weekend!
oxoxoxoxoxo
416 556 2647
Dakini
My sexy heartfelt people out there! How strong is your heart anyway? Excuse me; you say it needs fixing, mending, a complete overhaul from all the bombardments of the past? Listen here; any time a woman feels she needs to fix her man's heart, things are eventually going to end badly. Same is true if a man needs to fix his woman's heart, or any other combination of genders one wants to use. If one partner is truly in need of some personal fixing, and she or he is not going into heart repair without prompting, no amount of wanting her or him to change is going to matter. Eventually it will become an issue of disagreement. People have to want to change their heart, right? Absolutely!
Most women have visions of the ideal man; a masculine, affectionate, intelligent man who will sweep you off your feet; being not only a knight in shining armour, but sensitive and romantic. This of course is all great and sounds pretty mouth watering in fact. But listen ladies; WAKE THE F...... UP! These flash fire attractions turn into a relationship, and your knight in shining armour can sometimes, well, seem like a real wimp! I'm sure this might sound a bit sexist, but I think this is going to be pretty good advice. Men need to be able to feel like men, which doesn't mean they can't be sensitive and in touch with their emotions. But the old ideas of the medieval man, which doesn't seem very politically correct, are still highly useful.
Almost nothing in our general culture supports a new, evolved masculinity, and we’re still obsessed with surface rather than depth. The macho is sadly one dimensional. Yet, if guys are too soft, they're wimps. If they openly appreciate beauty, they must be gay. Other than the Christian and mainstream religion camps, if they're spiritual, they're lumped with the new agers; whether they belong there or not; again men are viewed as somewhat soft. And though it's unspoken, soft is pretty much equal to weak, which rubs against the deeply ingrained cultural programming from both men and women about how men should be.
It’s not just that women generally want men to be more tender hearted, compassionate and feeling; in a word, CONNECTED. Some deep part of you men out there, indeed knows that you need to be that way too. Despite outward displays of male bonding and mutual trust on a deeper level, most guys are pretty alone. Much as you hate to admit it guys, you're fairly alienated. Perhaps you're lonely as well.
Look, the worlds current notion of masculinity is based primarily on personality attributes that portray a more outward and probing, determined to be someone strong; just like you want your almighty male genitals to be. The masculine is inclined toward qualities that display assertiveness and forward direction; seeking linear locomotion if you will and a sense of progress; competitive and or territorial. You men want to frame challenges and opportunities outside of your masculine heart. But by your very nature, the so called feminine trait, which is in your heart, IS more attuned to relationships of an organic process, harmony and love! For men, as you cultivate more of these relational qualities, you'll then enhance our ability for deepness, feeling, cooperation and intimacy and complete wholeness in your masculine heart.
Al-righty then; until the next beat; have a fantastic weekend!
oxoxoxoxoxo
Sunday, September 13, 2015
Polarizing Sex
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Hello sexy ones! What direction are you moving in, well sexually you must know? Are you partially or wholly in one direction when it comes to sex with your partner? What happens between a man and a woman when they are fully polarized in their sexual energy? Does that energetic sexual polarity field simply draw them together, and they just can’t help it? And why would they anyway? They feel the pull of the sexual energy, the draw of the excitement, the sexualization and the sheer power of sexual passion!
This is what is missing for a lot of wonderfully sexy people out there. The relationship started off as a friendship and then sex was f.......ing mind blowing and you couldn't stay off each other, then; BOOM out of no where, your flame blows out. Sound familiar? Maybe not to some, but for those hearing my point; you have to create this energetic pull again that's necessary to power, ignite and explode the flame into an inferno!. Ya well, how the hell do I do that you're asking? Ok, it's like this: The man should be in his masculine and the woman in her feminine, plain and simple; but is it? And this latter part of the equation my dear seekers is a BIG problem out there right now; because women are in their masculine because they have to be these days. You have single moms being Dad figures; they have to work twice as hard to make ends meet and what happens is they develop the not so sexy aura around their sexual energy field. It can, of course, work the other way round; but in most cases, it doesn't.
There is a sexy secret here, let's see if you can unravel the message today. For women; you must exercise the feminine within you, daily that is. Don’t use it, live it. LIVE FEMININE! Once you start living deep inside your female energy, it encourages your male partner to live deep inside his masculine. When both of you are there in your innate selves; the electricity just happens! There is no active working on it, no trying to prove yourself, no performance. You just relax into yourself and let the primal, natural female or male inside of you live I say!
Look, each of us, woman or man possesses both inner masculine and inner feminine qualities. Men can wear earrings, hug each other if they want, and dance naked in the woods (which I wouldn't mind seeing by the way). Women can change the oil (some anyway)in the car, accumulate political and financial power, and box in the ring. Men can take care of their children. Women can fight for their country. We have proven over and over again that these things occur. Just about anyone can animate either masculine or feminine energy in any particular moment.
The bottom line of today’s message is? If women and men are clinging to a screwed up politically correct sameness, even in moments of intimacy; then the sexual attraction is gonna disappear. It's as simple as that. The love may still be strong, the friendship is still tight, but the polarizing of sex has vanished and it's unnecessary and can be restored. Create moments of intimacy when one partner is willing to play the masculine pole and one partner is willing to play the feminine. I want to say to you all, that I encourage the masculine and feminine differences if you want to play in the field of sexual passion and bring back sexual polarity.
It is up to you; you can have a loving friendship between two similars. But in the moments when you want strong sexual polarity, you need a more masculine and a more feminine partner. It doesn’t matter if both partners are men or both are women. It makes no difference in a heterosexual relationship, if the man plays the feminine pole and the woman plays the masculine pole. I don't give a rats ass if every day you change who plays the masculine pole and who plays the feminine pole. In order to polarize sex, you need an energetic polarity, an attractive difference between the masculine and the feminine. Look, you don’t need this for love, but you do need it for great flippin sex and the passion that goes along with it; and who knows, LOVE could grow from it!
Ok lovelies; that's enough for today. Wanna know more? Consultations are always welcome.
Enjoy your upcoming week.
oxoxoxoxoxoxo
Friday, September 4, 2015
Boundaries vs Border Crossings
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Hi sexy ones! How was your week? Do you know yourself sexually enough to drawn a line with your limitations, sexually? Say what; someone's overstepped your border crossing without checking in with you first? If you've drawn the line where the boundary rests; and someone snuck in without permission; shame on them and they need to know it's not a f.....ing border crossing, thinking that they'll eventually get into your territory!
416 556 2647
Dakini
Hi sexy ones! How was your week? Do you know yourself sexually enough to drawn a line with your limitations, sexually? Say what; someone's overstepped your border crossing without checking in with you first? If you've drawn the line where the boundary rests; and someone snuck in without permission; shame on them and they need to know it's not a f.....ing border crossing, thinking that they'll eventually get into your territory!
Sexual boundaries include boundaries
about your sexual preferences, your body, who touches you intimately;
and a HUGE one here; (how they touch you), comments that are sexual in
nature, what your level of comfortability is with sexual behaviors, and
how comfortable you feel touching others.
Boundaries are commonly an issue
amongst those who have experienced intrusions at an early age; and
didn't know any better. What this means is, you're unable to form
healthy boundaries within your adult sexual connections and even your
personal relationships; because you had no idea that you could. It's
like being a frggin door matt; wipe your feet on me and come on in!
You sexy people out there who weren't given adequate boundary development in early childhood while growing up, haven't been given the opportunity to establish your physical, emotional or biggy.....sexual boundaries and may need to develop adequate limits first; before the union of simple intimacy. Sexual boundary intrusions can be as simple as being coerced (meaning; asked over and over again) into trying a sexual activity when you have already display the friggin sign (prohibited area!). Look, this is only one aspect of a sexual boundary being pushed. Some other examples include; someone indirectly making sexual hints or comments that feel inappropriate, uncomfortable, or disrespectful.
If you find your sexual boundaries being pushed; it's important that you learn ways to set stronger, healthier, and respectable boundaries with the person you connect with during an intimate sexual experience. If you find yourself hearing the nagging sounds of a sexual partner saying; come on, you let me come through the border the last time; then tell them that you allowed them to come through, yes; but your sexual energy has shifted this time, and that my friends, is a boundary that has adjusted according to your comfort level in the moment. Like daaaaa; this is Tantra people! Your body is your space and you must be in tune with your energy shifts, which always surface as boundaries; in any given circumstance.
As a professional, I guide seekers to learn how to understand what boundaries actually are; because believe it or not, there are some people out there who don't know diddly squat; believing they shouldn't exist during an intimate connection. That's BULL SH......T and you better know it! With all the flippin hype out there allowing us to explore more sexually, it's becoming a tad bit over rated, making us feel like we have to push our boundaries for others accommodations. Learning to explore how to safely push the boundaries and cross borders, so you can explore sexuality when it's comfortable, can change your boundary outlook; but that only happens with border crossing patrol! Listen, if you feel uncomfortable with something, or if you're being pushed past your limits, your boundaries are being disrespected! Learning how to honour yourself IS key to being an emotionally healthy sexy person; and you'll attract what you need sexually.
You sexy people out there who weren't given adequate boundary development in early childhood while growing up, haven't been given the opportunity to establish your physical, emotional or biggy.....sexual boundaries and may need to develop adequate limits first; before the union of simple intimacy. Sexual boundary intrusions can be as simple as being coerced (meaning; asked over and over again) into trying a sexual activity when you have already display the friggin sign (prohibited area!). Look, this is only one aspect of a sexual boundary being pushed. Some other examples include; someone indirectly making sexual hints or comments that feel inappropriate, uncomfortable, or disrespectful.
If you find your sexual boundaries being pushed; it's important that you learn ways to set stronger, healthier, and respectable boundaries with the person you connect with during an intimate sexual experience. If you find yourself hearing the nagging sounds of a sexual partner saying; come on, you let me come through the border the last time; then tell them that you allowed them to come through, yes; but your sexual energy has shifted this time, and that my friends, is a boundary that has adjusted according to your comfort level in the moment. Like daaaaa; this is Tantra people! Your body is your space and you must be in tune with your energy shifts, which always surface as boundaries; in any given circumstance.
As a professional, I guide seekers to learn how to understand what boundaries actually are; because believe it or not, there are some people out there who don't know diddly squat; believing they shouldn't exist during an intimate connection. That's BULL SH......T and you better know it! With all the flippin hype out there allowing us to explore more sexually, it's becoming a tad bit over rated, making us feel like we have to push our boundaries for others accommodations. Learning to explore how to safely push the boundaries and cross borders, so you can explore sexuality when it's comfortable, can change your boundary outlook; but that only happens with border crossing patrol! Listen, if you feel uncomfortable with something, or if you're being pushed past your limits, your boundaries are being disrespected! Learning how to honour yourself IS key to being an emotionally healthy sexy person; and you'll attract what you need sexually.
Until the next time; enjoy your Labour Day weekend!
oxoxoxoxoxoxo
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