Clitoral Love

Hello again my seekers of knowledge.  How the heck are you? We are still going to focus on the Clitoris, because we love her, yes?

If I told you that there was a way to make your goddess putty in your hands, would you listen? Guess what, guys?  I know exactly what it takes to satisfy a woman;  in the bedroom at least; As I'm a woman!   You might think that a few kisses and the presentation of your proud erect buddy, attached to you might be enough to make her quiver, but you might be missing the most important factor in your, and your lovers sexual satisfaction.

Women have so many erogenous zones that it can get a little overwhelming for a guy trying to figure out the magic combination to her satisfaction. You've already gotten a play-by-play overview of the most popular ; her G-spot ;  so now it's time to fully consider the never-fail, go-to spot for her orgasm.  It's time to focus on the most important square inch on her body: her clitoris.  Understanding the clitoris is the key to a woman eager to come back for more!  Get comfortable and pay attention, here's ALMOST everything you need to know when it comes to understanding the clitoris.  I can't write a book here, so chapter by chapter, we'll get the story finished.

Language

Sexual stimulation is largely a cerebral activity for women; know this guys.  Turning her on requires attention to her brain, not just her body.  Even if you and your lover have yet to venture into talking dirty to each other, rest assured that whispering in her ear about what you plan on DOING to her, or how turned on you are, can be enough to get her wanting more. Believe me!  The more aroused you can get her before the clothes come off, the easier your next job will be and this is key to understanding the clitoris and everything around it.

Fingers

It goes without saying that clean hands and neat fingernails are key if you plan on going exploring, but what you might not realize is that diving in and honing in on her clitoris to start with might not be your best plan of attack. Your fingers are agile, so use them to your advantage. Stroke her thighs on your way and caress the areas on either side of her clitoris, including her labia, before gently making the first contact.  What about the 10 erogenous zones on her abdomen?  You're not even aware of those either, are you?  This area directly stimulates the inside of the yoni, without once again, the intrusion.  A lot of women may find direct pressure and instant entry into her flower uncomfortable, so try aiming just below or just above her clitoris and all those other areas, making small circular movements. The clitoris actually extends well into her entire pelvic region, rest assured that her enjoyment will only be enhanced by full manual coverage.

Just a note on pressure: Be sure to keep the strokes smooth with her sensitive areas before you get to know what she likes and are clear on your understanding of the clitoris. A light touch will be more successful on most women.  Use feathers, soft paint brushes and other playful props for stimulation.  Get creative!

Mouth

All women appreciate that you've decided to get up close and personal;  really, they do! Your mouth (and tongue!) are your best aids to helping her achieve an earth-shattering orgasm every time. The built-in lubrication and warmth are obvious pros in favour of oral stimulation;  as is your ability to mix up the sensations with your lips and tongue, (it's teamwork here!)  If you're looking to move past, the basic flick and swirl and show that you really understand the clitoris, try creating a bit of suction by taking her clitoris into your mouth with some gentle sucking or pulling away when she's close to orgasm, and gently blowing on it to heighten her sensation and prolong the encounter.

Lingam

I don't want you to ignore your favourite sex toy when we're discussing her orgasm and understanding the clitoris; your lingam can get in the game and help out during foreplay to really get her going as well.  During love making, your attached buddy might not get too much face time with her clitoris, so it's worth taking a bit of time to introduce them ;  they're sure to be fast friends.  Before love making, why not try having your sweetie lay on her back with her legs clamped together tightly (on her stomach works too) and slide your ever so lovely wand of light between her legs, right where they meet with her pelvis. Moving back and forth in this position lets your lingam rub between her labia and, more importantly, directly over her clitoris. Not only does this trick feel great for both of you, it's sure to heighten your collective arousal and result in possible orgasms for everyone.

Understanding the clitoris is the sign of a man that is invested in his partner and her pleasure, both of which are noble qualities. Even though it seems like a bit of a mystery, there's nothing to be afraid of, and many things to gain, namely a happy and satisfied woman.  And remember, a satisfied woman is going to be more interested in making sure that you're satisfied too, and you can't ask for more than that.

Once again my sexy friends, it has been yet another stimulating connection with all of you!
Be healthy, harmonious, and most of all, helpful, in bringing out the most ecstatic stimulation for your partners clitoris.

See you all next week!
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Essential Elements

Hey you guys!  How are all things this week?  Do you get down on your knees and say your prayers every day?  Excuse me!  Why the heck not? Shame on you if you don't.  If that seems to be too much of a task for you; why not implement a prayer into your sex life.  Don't worry; I haven't gone religious on you all, heaven forbid that!   But you can certainly add the sex prayer into your intimate practice with your partner; and you would be better off by doing so!

The sex prayer IS the essential prayer that incorporates movement with tender speech, with one another.  It can be as simple as whispering to your partner just before the both of you connect into the sacred union together; with the intention that your every gentle sliding movement, is voiced by a prayer. The most exquisite form of a sex prayer, in the Tantra language, is combining our mouth energy with the connection of the palm of our hands, with our partners heart.  The prayer is actually recited when your lingam is inside your partners yoni; and gracefully making movements that are made in sync.  This my followers, is for the  intention of connecting to each others source of life force; an extremely powerful ingredient for sacred love.

Spiritual sexual gurus (like myself) frequently suggest to seekers, to use sex prayers, particularly during the kinesthetic experience of making love. Sex prayers are also good for people who are having trouble feeling grounded or fully present in their bodies while having sex.

Sacred sex prayers help couples purify their intentions.  When the almighty sex prayer is placed into the rhythm before, during and after making love; it directs the intention to a place within us, called pure unconditional love, which truly gives tenderness, deepens the united act of sex, gives a self offering that tells the truth and doesn't deceive, and plants forgiveness that truly heals, from loving physical sexual union.

If you want to start practicing the sex prayer but aren’t sure how to begin; I have shared one of my own below, for you to insert into your binders

This is my sex prayer

My divine one, it seems so crazy to think that I have anything I could possibly give to you at this time of intimacy, or that there’s anything you need from me.  But you’ve said that you want me, that you desire me, so please take me; I’m yours! Breathe with me.  Be present with me.  If there’s any way that I can bring you even the teensiest bit of love and comfort, then teach me how; and I'll show you how.  Show me how I can give you pleasure; and you will understand mine.

The sex prayer is not just healing, it's a sexy way to experience each others intentions as well; hence, IT WILL BE A TURN ON!
Talk to you next week!
oxoxoxoxoxo