Serpent Sex

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Toronto Ontario Canada & Costa Rica,  Central Americal

Hi there you sexy slithery people!  How goes the sexual energy flow? Are you storing it away or wasting it?  Did you know that the ancient people of the desert were taught to conserve sexual energy by observing the example of the rattle snake?  Sounding weird?  Hardly!  As a matter of fact, when the snake reaches adulthood, it instinctively conserves its venom for animals small enough to consume, and will often dry bite a larger aggressor instead of expending venom.

What happens here is, the rattle snake enters a relaxed trance state by rolling their eyes up into the back of their heads.   You men followers out there may not have the instinct of the rattle snake; BUT, you too can learn to master your sexual energy by focusing on the top of your heads (not the top of your penis head either!) and pulling the sexual energies and fluids up through the body via the spine, using what I teach, called fire breath. This will be your secret dry bite guys!  What it will do, is enhance longevity and wisdom in your being.  It also enables you to make love as much as you wish, and leave you energized the next day; even if you haven't slept.  Now that's what I'm talking about!  The sexual act remains pleasurable and always evolves, rather than becoming dull and repetitive.  According to this ancient tradition, when this principle was common knowledge; the result was long lived wise women and men who did not overpopulate their homelands, yet enjoyed their intimate relations.  How the hell did modern society loose common knowledge like this?  I know exactly how and so should you!

Most individuals just want to expel the sexual energies to relieve themselves of pressure.  You know, get off so to speak!  Listen, this only angers the serpent (sexual energy) in both males and females and can cause trauma in too many ways.  Also, the man is likely to fall into a death slumber after making love; not sexy at all!  Furthermore, while some illnesses deplete sexual energy, it's usually the other way around with this energy conservation.  Someone with depleted sexual energy is more likely to fall ill.

So therefore, beginning in early adulthood, a man is wise to view his sexual energy as a treasure and should be protected.  He should focus on quality, not quantity, as he can discharge power during the common way that he use to have sex.  Ideally guys, you need to start developing the capacity to draw the sexual energy up your spine to replenish yourself and generate energy, even if you are without a partner.  Learning this technique will allow you to engage in energetic sex, when it does occur.  Isn't that what you want?  Sure you do!

As the sexual energy is refined, it naturally grows upward, then outward towards life, service to others, and greater awareness; and away from physical exhaustion and penis death!  Someone who has mastered this process can then share the concentrated energy with other partners who have refined their own energy for energetic sex as well.  If it's a love relationship, BONUS, for even greater energy mysteries!

I guide seekers on a one to one basis as well as couples, into exercises for utilizing this practice, as a tool for sexual energy.  Stretching the spine frequently and dancing both help to raise the energy.  All of you out there should be respectful of sexual energy, asking ITS permission each and every time and using it with integrity.  Once the energy is above a certain level, once it becomes celestial, then it becomes very selective.  If it's misused, it can strike like a snake!  But with a gentle, respectful invitation, it can also be quite beneficial.  Bringing the serpent sexual energy back down to its nest, which is at the base of the spine and in the sexual organs, is as important as waking the damn thing up!  This returns and stabilizes to replenished energy; releasing any tired or sick energy during exhalation of breath.

Sounds too healthy?  Too bad people.  You either want the good or the bad; there's no in between!

Energize your weekend lovelies!
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Quadrant 3's Dissection

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Hey lovelies!  What action of consent took place for you this week?  Did you receive or undertake something that was offered to you?   Have you made an agreement with someone to meet a specific goal and willing to ACCEPT the outcome?

The lifestyle of Tantra says yes to everything.  You simply say yes with ACCEPTANCE!  You don't need to fight things, you don't even need to swim; you just flat out, float with the current.  The river of Tantra is going by itself, on its own accord; everything reaches the ultimate ocean of discovery.  You simply don’t create any disturbance, you don’t push the river, you completely go with it.
That going with it, going with the flow, floating or relaxing, is the ACCEPTANCE quadrant, within the circle of Tantra.  If you say yes, a deep ACCEPTANCE happens to you.  If you say yes, how can you be complaining?  How can you be miserable?  So with that out of the bag people; everything is as it should be. You are not fighting, not denying, you ACCEPT!
The ACCEPTANCE quadrant says a transformation is possible, but not a destruction.  Your transformation comes when you ACCEPT your total being.  What you will experience is that suddenly, everything falls in line, everything takes its own place, then anger, greed and frustration is absorbed.  Then without even trying to cut anything out of your being, your whole being rearranges itself.  It's like a friggin miracle followers!
Listen to me here sexy ones!  Let go of resistance to certain circumstances, or attachment to specific outcomes in your daily experiences; including your sexual experiences!  There's a big one here, and that is; rid yourselves of the desire to control everything that happens.  What I hope here, is that you all better have started learning how to be in the moment with everything, and I mean every sexy thing!  Be still, stop fighting, stop struggling, and resisting, and just ACCEPT!   Observe what you are feeling, but don’t judge or change it, just experience it.   Be present in any situation.  Stop  focusing on the way you want things to be, just stay with what is right now.  Be okay with all of this, instead of swimming against the current; you're gonna burn out if you do!  Bring in the joy and positives in the present circumstance and focus on that.  Be grateful for them and choose to be in the flow.  If you experience challenges, say to yourself, It’s okay, I’m going with the flow, I’m not going to resist, I will just ACCEPT it.  Relax and have faith that this is where you're suppose to be, right in the now of it all!
Ok, it's time for me to go now.  Did you feel my wild presents today, from my delivered words?  You were right there ACCEPTING them all with me, weren't you?
Give love and ACCEPTANCE to your week! oxoxoxoxoxoxo

The Circle of Tantra

Hi Sexy!  How's it going?  Are you in the loop yet?  Dizzy from the circle you've entered via Tantra?   What?  You haven't climbed in yet, or you're having a hard time unlocking the doors?  Let me explain something to you all here.  There's this circle; and I prefer that you all start calling it; the circle of Tantra.  It's a place with no time; vast and never ending.  I'm going to give you the 4 master keys today for unlocking the circle.  I've divided this grand sphere into 4 quadrants, to keep things organized and mathematically simple.  Most of you know that a quadrant indeed corresponds to a quarter of a circle, but listen up you sexy people; within one quadrant inside the circle of Tantra; there are considerably smaller regions within that one small quadrant.  So, the primary meaning of all this is?  Well, the size of that one quadrant on the inside of this magnificent lifestyle; rather corresponds to an indefinite place of existing; within your sexual being that is.  Living inside the circle of Tantra, IS the simplicity of living life.  And quite frankly; it IS as simple as just that.  So, how can we get out of our own damn way and allow the amazing magic of life, inside the circle of Tantra to unfold?  There are 4 key quadrants that can support you; when you know it's time to get back on track and live inside the circle where you belong.

The  4 quadrants in the circle of the Tantra lifestyle, carry various levels of practices; and within each quadrant lies endless areas of vast dimensions.  In order for you to create a relationship; with your enlightened sexual being; which of course is the topic of this sexy day; you have to explore all 4 areas!  I'm going to start you off  with this today because later, I want to take you further inside each quadrant, dissecting the depths of sexual expansion.

Quadrant 1 -  Action/Movement

We must act, in order for us to get what we want, sexually that is.  The action quadrant principally emphasizes external actions.  We create an intended action, deliberately, with emphasis on visualization, in order to reach the transformation of sexual bliss. This quadrant speaks of movement as something that is going on in every moment.  It's not just about your physical movement, but also about your emotional movement. It's all energy people!  If your body stays in rest to long, it's more difficult to move.  The same is true with emotions.   Staying fluid is so important; because this is your rhythm of life, so dance!

Quadrant 2 - Speech/Intention

This quadrant places equal emphasis on both external and internal actions.  It principally emphasizes internal actions (intention), and (external actions) speech, and asking by communication for what we want, sexually.  The circle of Tantra calls us out to reclaim our voice, not just in words, but more in sound.  Any sound that causes breath, movement, awareness and a state of surrender to release.  Remember, breath IS the fuel that moves sound; it's the vibrations that sound rides on, bore to the core of our energy!  We are nothing but sound beings; and the more sound one can make, the more energy we can move.  If you add intention, the sound takes form.  Take a look at the strings on a guitar; they are just strings unless you dance your fingers across them.   A tone is made with intention, and then it becomes powerful music.

Quadrant 3 - Awareness/Surrender

This is our full ability to just show up in life.  Waking up to every moment and being present.  This is the quadrant version for the power of now. Sexual speaking, (which is why I'm here) this is the key that makes sex magical and unforgettable.  Giving each moment of life the full richness it has to offer.  This takes experiencing life to the witness state; a completely different dimension.  And when we become more present, cause and effect begin to become more important as we see our actions actually have reactions.  Our awareness will support surrender, as we find the inner trust to just let go of the BS!  And by knowing we are aware, a ripple effect takes place with every single action.  So when I speak of sexual surrender; we are more easily able to accept it.

Quadrant 4 - Acceptance

Acceptance says yes to all things.  What happens here is; there's liberation from discipline, an open welcoming that all acts are divine; sexually speaking that is.  Non judgment cuts the binds that hold in right or wrong, good or bad.  In this quadrant, the foundation of surrender creates safety to trust with awareness of our actions.  We breathe in that trust and awareness as we exhale with sound, fully letting go and being alone with our intention, in order to unfold within the journey.  Acceptance will open the doors wide open and release the old patterns that are lies;  learned from the outside of the circle of Tantra.

Alright people, take your master keys and slide them tight onto your key chain; and don't loose them!
I'll be taping the second season for the Sex with Dr Zen show next week and will be out of town.  I won't be delivering an article until the following week.
See you soon!
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416 556 2647
Dakini
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