Sexual Prism

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Hey my transparent recruits!  How's the sexual journey?  Have you ever taken a moment and pondered over your sex life; and feel like you've lost your hold on your sexual personality?  Truthfully, many people are now grabbing back their personal sexual identity.  Some of us feel like we have to dabble into exploring all the hype; even if it's not to their personal liking.  This my friends is NOT the way your sex life was meant to be lived.  What I'm saying is: if you already have the knowing inside of you; meaning, you see the black and you see the white; or the varying hues stemming from that ; then the work is done! 
So how do you find your personal sexual prism; if you haven't already done so, in order for you to determine exactly who you are in your sexual world?  Theoretically anyone, anywhere, at any time can tap into the internal depths of their personal sexual prism.  First off, however, in order to decode the colourful information; it requires the light, of that crystal clear awareness of yourself, in-depth knowledge of what exactly is being thrown out to you from society and the continual development thereafter, for your own sexual skills (yes, skills!).
It's easy to identify your personal sexual prism, but I'm here to tell you, it's just as easy to have it clobbered, so be careful please!  Of course, having a giving partner is essential, but your sexual prism comes from you; you create and created it.  For me, It was an incredibly long and arduous process; given that my sexual prism was crafted by other people in my previous relationships, and I naively went along with things, thinking that eventually I would be a certain way sexually.  Society also dictated to me with; here, try this or try that; even when I knew the black and white of sexual self.  I eventually burned up those sketches society was trying to draw for me and had a ceremonial naked fire dance ritual; ashes to ashes!  So far I've learned to remember that my sexuality is meant to be enjoyed with pleasure, and to stay present and open during the whole blooming process.  Remember, no ONE sexual experience is THE experience.  Even with the same partner, it can change over years, weeks, and even days.  So let go of that silly drawing that was thrown at you, telling you that you're suppose to be this specific sexual being or that apparent sexual being!  Toss it, or roll it up and shove it in a closet for memories; you don't need it anymore!  All you need is your triangle; made up of your inner self, your body, and a willingness to allow the light in, to open the spectrum of colour that awaits!
Take a look at a blooming spring flower garden and noticed the colours are perfectly accentuating each other?  Stop wasting your time looking at the colour wheel to see if one colour matches the other. With your sexual prism; everything matches like a garden blooming with pinks and oranges together.  I bet you never thought of decorating one of your rooms in your home with those two colours did you?  But in the garden, those colours  are perfectly natural; growing and revealing their true radiance!  This is how it works with your sexual prism.  Your sexual prism is one garden of colour; stemming from the black and the white; THAT YOU ALREADY KNOW AND SEE!
Ok you patient, passionate, colourful followers.  I leave this with you to ponder.
Next time as usual!
oxoxoxoxoxoxoxo