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Well hello again my faithful followers!  Ok, I gotta say this.  Over the past year or so, I've been bombarded with questions pertaining to; how to lasting longer in the sac with their partner.  What confuses me is after explaining, demonstrating and putting into practice the techniques to take home for homework; seekers are still flunking the class!  What's up with that?  If you really value the information; then memorized my assignments!

There are a number of sexual experts over the past several decades who have taught women and men, how to reach prolonged pleasure states that overthrow the momentary bliss of a singular orgasm.  Tons of authors and researchers, like myself have described this state as continuous multiple orgasms, blended orgasm, or extended or expanded sexual orgasms. The heart of the matter is to practice channeling your sexual energy, in order to reach an expanded state of full body pleasure and heightened spiritual consciousness with your partner.  I know you desire this; but you can't go to the gym and expect results by watching everyone else!  The possibilities to expand your experience of orgasm are as endless as your imagination and it takes discipline!

It's not only possible, but crucial in my books, to extend your usual orgasmic time which is usually around 8 seconds and keep the conversation going with the universe for at least 60 seconds.  Doesn't sound like a lot of time does it?  But when you are in the intense spasms of orgasm, a minute feels like forever!  So, in order for you to extend and let the love linger with your orgasms, there are several techniques worth your while to pay attention to.  

One of the big ones is contracting your love muscle during orgasm.   Say what muscle and where? This is the PC muscle and it's a hammock like muscle, found in both females and males that stretches from the pubic bone to the coccyx (which is your tail bone) forming the floor of the pelvic cavity and supporting all of those important pelvic organs.  By squeezing that little sucker, just like you're stopping the flow of urine from coming out; and drawing energy with an inhalation through the nose (4 seconds) will move the orgasmic energy into the Microcosmic Orbit (that's way up past your crown chakra) helping to keep your arousal high.  On the exhale let the air pass through the throat with a huge primal vibration for as long as you can release the oxygen.  You can then extend the orgasmic time by continuing to contract your little love muscle, even when you would have normally finished having an orgasm. 

What I want you to do from now on, is consciously continue to encourage this exercise of pulsations, and as you train yourself to do this, you will find that you can keep the pleasurable waves coming and coming and I'm cominggggggg!!!

I'm about as serious as not paying your taxes here people!  Sooner or later you will pay for not practicing!  That essential ingredient of exhaling with a long breath, releases oxytocin from your throat and not allowing it all to come out of your genitals; where everyone is exhausted there after.   When you start to have that orgasm, slowly breathe out via your throat, making a loud vibration noise.  The throat and the vagina are connected don't you know, which is perhaps why it is easier to extend your orgasm if you are expressing your pleasure through your voice.   As long as you can extend your exhalation and continue to make sound while contracting your PC muscle, you can extend your orgasms; believe it, I practice it!   Another great incentive is to practice meditative breath control before you even have sex. 

You will find, that is, if you practice, with the maturity of your sexual energy, that you will be able to extend your orgasm through one long out breath, a quick intake of breath, and then another one or two breaths.  Listen, your throat is open to sound and your genitals are open to pleasure, which allows the orgasmic wave to continue to flow through you.  So, if you have to soundproof your room, DO IT!  Use the power of your love muscle, and ride your pulsations into extended orgasm!

Ok, my friends; as always, it was great flexing with you today!
See you again
oxoxoxoxo